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=========================== HARLEY HAHN NEWSLETTER #16 March 28, 2003 =========================== "Don't look for a permanent solution to a temporary problem." -- Harley Hahn ================= In Praise of Work ================= When you were young and living at home, what was your attitude towards work? If you were like me, most of the enjoyment you remember came during the times when you were *not* working. Although I liked going to school, the times I enjoyed the most were weekends and summer vacations, when I was free to do whatever I wanted to do to have fun. As I grew older, my attitude towards work evolved. The change was subtle and it came slowly, but it was unmistakable. By the time I became an adult, I found that I got much more pleasure out of working than I did out of recreation. To be sure, I still liked having fun: spending time with friends, playing music, hiking, reading, painting, and so on. However, as I got older, I found that my work took on new meaning and became much more important to me than when I was young. Most of us, of course, don't have a choice, we have to work. We need money to support ourselves and our families. But as adults, work means a lot more than a paycheck. The purposeful effort with which we fill our waking hours defines much of who we are and underscores our place in the world. I am lucky in that I love my work. Although what I do is difficult, it is stimulating, rewarding and enjoyable. Indeed, most mornings, I can't wait to get out of bed so I can start working. I realize that not everyone feels the way I do. Many people look upon work as a burden. Such people say that they work only because they need to. However, this attitude is not as common as you might think, especially among well-educated people. If you look closely at peoples' lives, you will see that most of them like their work a lot more than they admit. The reason for this disparity is that in our culture, it is customary for people to pretend that they don't like to work. The prevailing attitude seems to be, "I work only because I have to, and I don't enjoy it. One day, however, I'll retire, and then I'll do what I *really* like.", The plain fact, however, is that the bulk of people who have been able to choose their own jobs are fascinated by what they do, and would be hard pressed to find a better way to spend their waking hours. Feeling this way about your work is a wonderful blessing for three reasons. First, when your work is a joy and not a burden, your hours are filled with satisfaction, rather than resentment. You become engrossed in your work, and the hours fly by. Of course, no feels like this every minute of every day, but for the most part, when you enjoy what you do, your biggest complaint is that there aren't more hours in the day to do what you love. The second blessing that comes from loving your work is that it greatly increases the chance that you will become successful. In fact, unless you love your work, there is very little chance that you will do well at all. Why? Because real success takes a lot of time and lot of persistence. It also takes skill, experience and luck. When you love your work, you will stick to it for years, day after day, through good times and bad. This means that when luck comes your way -- as it does for everyone once in a while -- you will have the skill and the experience to take advantage of the opportunities. Finally, there is a third reason why your choice of work is so important. We all know that there is no guarantee of financial success in this world, no sure-fire plan that leads to wealth. However, when you spend your time doing the type of work that suits you, you will have at least guaranteed that -- whether you get rich or not -- you will have spent your days doing what you love. This will infuse your life with a satisfying sense of well-being and fulfillment, a feeling that you cannot get in any other way. So what type of work should you do, and how do you go about making it happen? I get mail from all over the world, and these are some of the most common questions that I am asked. I can't give you an exact answer, because the choice of work is something you must make for yourself. What I can tell you is that, although it is an important choice, it is not one you need to make quickly. If you are young and you don't have a strong sense of direction, don't worry. Take your time, try different things, and be open to possibilities. We all have preconceived notions about life, but if you can learn how to be flexible and open-minded when it comes to work, you will have a much better chance of finding what you love. To help you get started, I have two essays on my Web site that you may find interesting. The first one, called "How to Get Rich", touches on the topics we have been discussing here: https://www.harley.com/writing/how-to-get-rich.html The second essay, "The Secret of My Success", discusses an idea that I guarantee will help you become successful, no matter what you do in life: https://www.harley.com/writing/the-secret-of-my-success.html The type of work you do is very important to your long-term happiness: much more so, for instance, than how much money you earn. Regardless of your age, regardless of your position in life, I want you feel that you do have a choice. -- Harley Hahn
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