After my father died, I created a simple Web
page for him and mentioned it in my
newsletter. Here are some of the messages I
recieved from people who looked at that page.
Harley Hahn
Visit my Web site
Send me a message
My deepest sympathies to you and your family
at the loss of your father. I'm very sorry I
missed your call on Friday. I wish I had known
your father when he was well. I can only
conclude he must have been a kind, generous,
and honourable man to have a son who cared
about him as much as you did. Take comfort
in knowing that you did as much as you could
do to make his last months more comfortable.
Regards,
George T. Monticone
[George was Murray Hahn's lawyer at the "Advocacy
Centre for the Elderly", in Toronto]
Dear Mr. Hahn,
I am very sorry for what happened on 30th
November. Please accept my sincere condolences.
It is very difficult to say something to
motivate you in such a case. I am sure your
father was a great man, and I surely will
remember him, as you inherited a lot from him,
and you are one of my favorite writers.
Once again, please accept my condolences.
Eugene.
Harley:
First let me just say I'm so very sorry to hear
about your father. The closest person to me I have
ever lost was my grandfather so, despite even now
still being profoundly saddened by his death, at
this point in my life I just can't imagine what it
must be like to be deprived of a parent. I hope
you've been able to come to terms with the shock
swiftly so that you'll be able to carry on writing
and helping people & basically just doing exactly
what I'm sure made your father so proud of you.
I remember reading that piece you wrote on your
site about there being no god. Obviously I
wouldn't expect (or want) you to refute your
opinion in an attempt to give a purpose to your
loss, but it might just be worth considering that
while most popular faiths like Christianity are
indeed nothing but fanciful myths & expedient
codes of conduct encouraged by the Government
mostly to keep the public morally righteous &
under control, the concept of some kind of
afterlife may be no more fantastic than life
itself.
I don't really know what to say in circumstances
like this so I'll just leave it at that. Nothing I
can say would help much but I hope you know that I
do feel for you, and I'm extremely glad to have
known Murray Hahn
Have relaxed and pensive Christmas,
--Martin
Dear Harley:
I have been running around town at meetings,
courses, etc., for the past few days, but I
did want to let you know I read your tribute
to your father on your website. I thought it
was lovely. It was great to see the pictures.
It is so important to remember and honour your
father, and you did that both in his lifetime
and after his death.
Jan Goddard
[Jan is the lawyer in Toronto who, at the time
of Murray Hahn's death, was working on financial
matters for him.]
I just happened to stumble across the message you
wrote about your father and I was very moved. My
grandmother died three years ago and I still find
myself thinking of her on a daily basis. I
completely understand your sentiments on the fact
that you and your father have similar humors; in a
way it becomes the ultimate gift.
Good luck to you.
Carmelita Marquez
Recently my father died at the age of 91. And
while his life was long and in good health I
realize that in his death that he was never a
happy person like your father.
It makes me very envious that you had such a
wonderful relationship and that he shared so much
with so many different people.
And while I won't have those same wonderful
moments to remember I do know it will make me try
a lot harder in dealing with my children and the
people close to me.
My deep regards,
Kent Forrest
I've got a letter from you. You told me about your
father's death. It's very difficult to lose people
you love very much. I feel for you deeply.
I've read an interesting article about your
father. I like it very much. Your photo is really
wonderful. One can feel you love your father and,
it's quite evident, he loved you.
I'm sure this event is changing you greatly. You
think about many things you've never thought
before, do you? You'll be upset and feel lonely
for a long period of time. I know that from my own
experience. I had many loses and felt
disappointment. Your friends and near relations
will help you in your sorrow. Besides, I think you
are a man of spirit. People that love life like
you really are.
Life goes on. We remember everything and
everybody. And a man's brain remembers the best
people and things in its life.
Sincerely yours, Helen.
When I came to the webpage, I saw the sad news
about your dad. I'm very sorry for your loss.
hello, how are you?
when i check my e-mail and understand that,your
father died i was so sad...
i save your father pctures with your in my
computer.
i ask forgiveness to bles for him.
i hop you excuseme for my mistake in my text.
i wish you will be successfull and happy..
Harley:
I want to tell you, as a christian as I am, that
you have got to feel happy very happy, and I'm
sure you do, to have had such a father like him,
and not got feeling sad because of his passing.
He's still alive there where he is now, you can be
completely sure of that, and thousands much better
than while he was here on this planet, the earth.
The life, the real life, after the death is a fact
and is eternal. He will be waiting for you, and
for all of us who believed in it: Life does exist
after death and there are worlds of worlds there
where beings work and live forever happpily. I
think you do not believe too much.
Ok Harley, my best wishes for your welfare,
Rodolfo Pareja
Dear Harlay Hahn
I am very sorry to hear that you lose your
father. My wife and I pray for you and your family.
Yours,
Seyed Hassan FatemiNia
Harley
I'm very sorry about your father. I didn't know
him, but I would very much haved liked to. The
world is a poorer place when it loses human beings
like Murray Hahn.
Steve Grbic
We just wanted to express our sympathy to you in
the loss of your father. You are absolutely
correct - we never have enough time with our loved
ones. From what I can see from the pictures you
posted it seems that you had a close friendship. I
am sure you have many, many good memories which
will help you along the way.
Susan Eid
I was very sorry to hear the loss of your father.
reading your notice brought tears to my eyes. You
were very blessed to have such a wonderful father
who I know will be truly missed by many. But his
spirit and humor and laughter will live on through
you.
Respected sir Harley Hahn:
I wish to express my heartfelt condolences
regarding your loving father's unexpected death.
God rest his soul. I like him much because he had
given a great gift to this earth, its (you sir )
and he lives in all our hearts forever. Please
keep going Sir, dedicating your works to your
fathers loving memory. Please enlighten millions
of people through your books.
God bless you, Sir.
Thanking you Upendra
Dear Harley,
I read your article about your father. I am so
sorry that you lost such a friend as your father.
Please, accept my deep condolences. I prey God to
help you in such hard time for you.
Vugar Mevlan Baku, Azerbaijan
Thanks for sharing your feelings with me. I envy
(in the good sense of the word) your relationship.
I did not have this bond with my own father and so
delight in seeing it in others. Again, thanks for
being out there and making yourself so available.
I, for one, appreciate it.
W.F.
Dear HH
It was sad to know about the demise of your
beloved father,but as they say everyone has to go
some day--rest assured your father's soul will
rest in peace in heaven.
Sorry for the delay in responding.
I pray that GOD gives you & your family the
strength to overcome all this.
I will just pray for you---
Come by here o Lord come by here..
Sorry to hear of your father's death
I just wanted to write to tell you how sorry I am
that your father passed away. I am certain he was
a wonderful man. You have many great qualities
that could have only been passed down from your
parents.
I hope you have a very merry christmas and a
wonderful new year and know that you are in my
thoughts.
Brenda
I am so sorry to Know that your father Mr Murray
Hahn was died . I shar your family & you all the
sad 'my friend Harley .
Hamed
Dear Mr Hahn
I just wanna send you my sarrow about you'r
father. I wish god bless him....
I dont disturb you any more with my bad English.
But please accept it.
Best regards Hilma Shahsavari, Iran
I love this page about your father. It is so
beautiful and so well written. It brought a tear
to my eyes because what you say there is so
universal and I found it to be very moving. Yes,
we all do know your father. I love your picture
with your dad, the one taken 1998. I love that
photo.
You are such a special and wonderful guy. I am so
glad that I know you. You are wonderful.
I love the books Harley. You give such
wonderful gifts to the world. Thank you for
you.
Dear Harley,
I was glad to finally see your newsletter start a
few weeks ago. I'm so sorry you've lost your
father. That was a beautiful tribute you've
posted on your website, including the photos.
Thanks for sharing this. You are certainly a
lucky son, and he, in turn, had to be thrilled
with what you've accomplished---with you.
Howard
I'm sorry to hear the sorrowful news that your
father passed away, from your article, I can see
he was a respectable person who had enjoyed his
life and brought so much happiness to the others.
I never meet him, but I can feel the influences he
gave to you through your works.
And I think the best thing you can do to
commemorate your father is to continusly bring
happiness to your readers with your books.
Ian Zhou
Harley,
I would like to extend my sympathy at your recent
loss. Your father sounded like a very kind and
sincere person (of which there are very few these
days). It is always hard to lose a parent - or any
member of a family - and I wish to extend my
sincerest condolences.
Jack
Hello Dear Harley.
I am Javad from Iran, I am the one who asked you
to help and you really helped me and I never
forget your kindness and charity.
I was very sad when I heared your father's death.
I really feel sorry. I read the explanations you
have written about your dear father at your site,
believe I did not know that some phrases of your
book had been said by your father.
May God bless his soul.
Yours sincerely, Javad.
I recall when My father died. I know how you feel.
Jack Charlton
I'm sorry to hear about your father, I think
though that he seems to have been a nice guy. I
wish you and your family all luck.
-- Jonna
Dear sir
First of all I am sorry for regrettable news about
honorable father.
Please accept my conolences.
yours Daraei
Hi Harley,
I am sorry to hear about your father's passing,
but based on what you said, he has lived a good
life. Seems like he had accomplished his purpose.
Keep up the good work, and your sense of humour.
Best wishes, Ken
Just a short note of condolences over the passing
of your father. My father died four and a half
years ago only 3 months after the birth of my
daughter. There is not a day goes by that I do not
think of him nor a week pass without my finding
him in my dreams.
There will be those who will tell "this too shall
pass". Don't believe them. If you were truly
close, there will always be an empty place longing
for his company. That is as it should be. The
intense pain will pass.
Have a good life.
I understand that your father passed away.
Let me offer my sincere condolences for your loss.
I'm sorry that my English skills do not allow me
to send a more personalized letter but please
accept my sincere wishes.
Sincerely,
Kiriyama, Takashi
Prof.Harley Hahn
I'm terribly sad to hear this news.I have no word
for a long time.As your student and Harley Hahn
Net's follower,I'm deeply concerned your bit.If
you have any questions,please contact with me, I
will try my best to help you.I have read your
article for your father_respected Mr.Murray Hahn
with tears.I can feel your feelings.If you trust
me,Let me share sadness with you.
Yours Liuzuokui
Thanks Harley for sharing the Memorial of your
Father, as well as your picture of you and the
yellow cat.
Happy Seasons to you, Louise Dott.
Dear Harley,
I have read one of your books and have learnt
Internet from you.
I am so sorry about your father's death.
I have learnt many things reading your book and
your site and believe that one always owes to his
teacher.
So I think it's my duty to show my sorrow!
-- Your Friend: Danyal
Dear Mr.Harley Hahn
I don't know you, but I know Mr.Harley Hahn
through your books.
I don't know Mr.Murray Hahn, but I know he is your
father.
My deepest condolence.
Harley,
Diana Eid told me about the loss of your father. I
just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you.
It has been good to know both you and your father.
Take care,
Liz Gaines
I liked your essay about your father. I often
think about mine the same way & I hope my son
remembers me as fondly. I am glad that I have come
in contact with you and hope to continue. I have
read "HH Teaches the Internet" from cover to cover
& still use it as a reference.
Walter
Harley,
I've read the web page devoted to your father.
What a lovely obituary! I hope someone will say
something like that about me when I die. He
sounded a very nice man, and I hope he died
peacefully. He was obviously much loved. I wish I
could make people like me, it's a wonderful gift.
Your words were very moving ...I know you're a
professional writer, but I'm always struck by how
well you use words. Presumably you've had the
funeral now - is your mother still alive? If he
was in a nursing home, it sounds as if he was on
his own. Anyway, I hope you and your family are
coping.
harley:
hello
primery i am very sorry for yaou father
excuse me that my english is bad .
Harley,
I am so srry to hear of your fathers passing. I
read your story about him with a lump in my
throat, for I too lost my father some years ago,
and I too inherited his sense of humour, &
kindness. There are some people in this world you
just cannot replace, & your father is one of them.
I hope you do not mourn his passing with sadness,
rather, celabrate his life, and be proud that you
have been priveliged to be a part of it.
Sincerely, Gareth Bryant.
Dear Harley,
I deeply console your father's death.
Hi dear harley
i'm so sorry to hear about your father.
god bless him,and i know as you said he was a good
man,he is right now in the paradise.
i want god,to give you a long life to be with
us,and write for us.
bye4now. Farzam.
Sorry to hear your sad news, I believe that rather
than dying, your father has moved on to a new
place and whilst you live a part of your father
will always be there to watch over and guide your
footsteps.
Harley,
I noticed on your website that your father passed
away this year. I am sorry for your loss. I feel
very fortunate that both my parents are still
alive.
I just wanted to write to tell you how sorry I am
that your father passed away. I am certain he was
a wonderful man. You have many great qualities
that could have only been passed down from your
parents.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and pictures
of your father. I send my condolescences.
I'm sorry to hear the demise of your beloved Dad.
I wish to convey my deepest sympathy to your
bereaved family. My thoughts are with you.
Regards, Elizabeth
Sorry to read about your dad, i bet he was a great
man.
hey man ,sorry to hear about your dad.at lease you
where at peace with him .chearish that bro.
Dear Harley,
Thank you for sharing.
What a wonderful human being, your Dad.
And, what a handsome fellow! Even in the pictures
I could see the Man. I am so glad you had him and
love him.
The apple doesn't fall....well, you know.
Bless You,
Marcie
What a wonderful man he must be, I say must be and
not must have been, I know he will still be with
you, because the love you shared shines through in
your words.
I hope that you have a great christmas and new
year, hold you lovely cat a little closer and I
know that you will.
Harley,
I'm sorry to read of your dad's passing.
Sorry to hear about your dad passing. I know how
it feels. Your father lived his life to the
fullest and I'm sure he helped a lot of people out
with their finances.
Good Luck and as time passes it gets easier.
Brian Kaiser
A memory is never loss,An experence never
forgotten,a love forever remember,for life is a
never ending transition in which we all continue
to grow.
Dear Harley
Hereby, please accept my heartiest condolences on
the loss of a great man in your life. May god
bless him and give you power of patience.
Hi Harley,
How are you, it is me Mohamed from Egypt, I
receive your mail and I'm so sorry for your father
God with you Harley.
Your friend from Egypt..Mohamed
Of course I don't know you, but please accept my
sympathy.
You must have loved him deeply to honor him as you
did.
I'm not very good with words, but know that my
prayers are with you that you are granted peace
and joy and hope during this time.
Dearest Harley,
I can feel the warmth and the love you have
for your father when I read your loving
tribute to his memory. He must have been so
proud of you. You have his special spirit. It
feels good to know that someday you will share
laughter with him again. Believe it. Your
words about your father exude a tenderness
that only the greatest of love could
illustrate so beautifully...so you and I both
know something this great never dies.
Someone once said that the only thing you take
with you when you go is the love. I believe
that this is true, and oh how wonderful and
comforting it is to believe in such truth. God
bless. Beverly Wright
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